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Where Is The Love? by Beaulah Hamilton (8) All the talk about blow jobs, anal sex, penis size, the latest and greatest sex positions, I could go on and on, makes me wonder why we have to “talk” so much about it. Has sex become so dull, mechanical and performance oriented that we have to constantly talk about spicing it up? What happened to the beauty of intimacy? I would imagine that 2 people that have a functional loving relationship could manage to figure out between themselves how to have great sex without all the advice and talk about it. Somehow, all the talk about it seems to take the magic of it away. It is no longer a private matter. The real meaning behind it gets lost with all the instruction. Sex, more... (continue reading)		Sexual Advice For Single Women by John Wilder(187) It is no wonder that you women are more confused than ever. You have been bombarded by multiple conflicting messages about sex and relationships. In a case of “Art Imitating Life” the TV show entitled: Sex in the City demonstrated women’s sense of conflictedness about sex and relationships. They proved to be ultimately clueless and tended to reinforce their own stereotypes. Carrie, the supposed expert on sex based upon her column was just as clueless about men and relationships as the rest of her girlfriends. This illustrates a problem in our society. We do not have any male advice columnists. If you are having trouble with a man, does it not make sense that you would go... (continue reading)

Premature Ejaculation: How Do You Handle It? by Efoghor Joseph Ezie Premature ejaculation can be so frustrating because it makes both partners not to enjoy sex the way they should. It also brings some feeling of guilt and insufficiency to the man, and makes the woman feel unloved. How it can be handled This problem can be taken care of by the mutual co-operation of the couple. The man can do a lot to help himself so he and his wife could both enjoy intimate love and passionate sex. Some of the things he can do include: 1. Talk about it: The man needs to face reality and talk with his wife about the problem. He should not attempt to solve the problem in isolation as this is likely to fail and create more tension in him. He should tell his... (continue reading)		Why Men Stare At Other Women and Why Their Wives Hate It! by Leah Gag Cartoonist (962) Some men habitually stare at other women when they are out and about with their wife or girlfriend. This often meets with criticism from the female partner. Men that behave like this often reply to this criticism with: " We’re men, that's what we do " . It's not true that ALL men stare at other women when out with their partners though, so no, it's not what ALL men do. I myself have dated a few chaps and out of those chaps, only two have made it obvious to me that they were looking at or staring at other women. In some cases I haven't commented as I was staring too. Often there is a reason to stare, though being discreet about it is always on my mind. Less so on... (continue reading)

More Romantic Suggestions For Men and Women by John Wilder(187) Women: If you are having a problem with your husband getting off too soon, you can combat that by taking charge once in a while and initiating the sex. Tell him that you want to play a game and tie his wrists to the headboard and that he can’t do anything that you are going to do everything. He has to be your sexual slave. You get on top of him and straddle his face and demand that he eat your pussy. In fact, do pelvic thrusts on his tongue. When he is erect, you can sit astride him and impale yourself on him. You then can control the speed of the intercourse so that he does not come too soon. In fact slow motion sex is great. This is where you give him just enough movement to... (continue reading)