Dirty Sex Positions - Secret To Good Sex? How Good Are You in Bed?
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Is it down to what sex position people practice that determines if they're good in bed? If you think about it the answer's no. All sex positions (intercourse) include the same thing. The penis penetrates the vagina, and depending on arranged pose of the couple at the time... the motion that follows will either be an up down - in out movement and your done. How can anyone possibly give marks out of ten for that type of performance? If being good in bed was based solely on this routine we would all be great lovers in the sack getting 10 out of 10 every go. Good sex is about what happens before sexual intercourse. You could say good sex is about how you perform, but if variety ain't there then there could be problems. You need to include various sex acts before making love to score high on the best sex scale.
If your bedpost is notched to the hilt and still no recognition for being good in bed, then maybe you're not doing something "right." Let me rephrase that - not doing the "right" things your partner would like you to do to them. It is vital you and your sexual partner knows of each other's likes and dislikes so that sex can be good and satisfying. Most excitements come from receptivity to what you are doing.
Are you a good lay? It's difficult to answer this accurately because no one person can be honored universally as "a good lay". You may well be a perfect match for some people in the bedroom, but you certainly won't be ideally suited for everyone. What you shouldn't do is worry about how to go about giving good sex as this can interfere with your performance. You just have to get on with it making sure you consider the needs of your partner. Give your lover what they want and the last notch you carve on the bedpost might be the one you carve with pride.
Sex Talk
If you're man is passionate he will love you to move as much as he does, and take control. As for snogging, everyone is different. Be careful when it comes to kissing. Some people like tongues while others don't. A simple thing like kissing can have you book marked low on the list of good lovers. Remember, talking about sensitive matters as such. "Matter," if you're to get it right. Unless a person is told what's to be done in foreplay how on earth can they better improve the situation? Watch out for the signs, if he/she attempts to direct your hand elsewhere don't take it to heart, follow it!! One lesson to be learned here is you won't know until you try. Sex is about personal preference and what people want to do at the time.
You will always get the girlie gossip about guys and the mucky remarks left by men about their women, and how they rated as being good in bed. Nonetheless one person's opinion on performance in bed does not always represent reality, and as long as you are open to improve your sex moves, it makes you the better person. Ignore any nasty jibes that come your way.
Every day is learning curve in relation to having sex and making it better. You are not a DIRTY person because you try diffenent things or use sex toys. It's all part of the fun.
Watch and learn as the saying goes but is this good advice if it's linked to sex. Following suit of another may not be a good option just beacuse you want to be a stud. Be yourself and learn from your own mistakes. You can avoid making mistakes if you weigh up the pros and cons beforehand. Sometimes based on particular observations, you can tell if a woman or man is going to give enjoyment, please and satisfy. Having confidence is the key for giving and receiving good sex.
Like most things you want to achieve in life you have to work at it. Giving good sex will require practice and experience. While experience is fundamental to gaining sexual skills and specific techniques, it isn't the be all and end all. Are you concerned about your partner being good in bed, and you being a flop? Stop worrying and take each step at a time. There is no hidden "secret" to making you a better lover than just you being natural
Things to think about:
- Kissing: If you like how your partner kisses, then he/she is good for you.
- Dancing; If your turned on by the way the person your attracted to moves their body vertically then how do you think they will move lying horizontal. Move in on them before some else is thinking the same.
Good sex is when both male and female, or those of the same gender are agreed upon practicing the same proposed sex position. And disagreement means one of you will not end up satisfied.
Everyone, if not already tried will have thought of trying something new linked to sexual activity, but for most it's only a matter of time before they resort back to old sex positions through habit. You need to keep this part of your life exciting. Boring sex play has been the cause of many a divorce, or encouraged a partner to go play the field. Keep the bedroom full of surprises
About sexual intercourse positions
Missionary Sex Position Spice Up:
The missionary position most popular of all includes the woman lying flat on her back with her legs open. The man will position himself on top and make entry from the front. Women need to change place with the man to spice things up for both him and her. The missionary style is the perfect intimate sex position. Being on top offers more gratification than other sex poses because it's a zealous position that lets you feel close to your partner thus allowing you take charge of your own pleasure.
For those whose needs are of deep wanting and intense penetration there are sex positions that can fulfill this longing. Lie flat on your back on the bed resting your bottom on the side with your legs resting on the floor. When the man enters the vagina, you bend your knees back toward your stomach while he supports himself on his hands and thrusts forward. It's best and much safer for the bloke to rest one leg on the bed, and so not to topple over his other leg on the bed. If you're not feeling what you want to feel pull your knees further back and rest your calves on his shoulders.
Sex from behind (Rear-entry positions) is enjoyed by many couples. Because you're restricted from looking at one another you can always use a mirror.
Some sex positions will require body flexibility to accomplish some awkward body forms.
Sitting and kneeling
The penetrating partner sits on a prepared surface, and when comfortable stretches their legs. The receiving partner will gently settle them self on top and wrap their legs around the penetrating partner. This sex position allows for caressing and fondling of both breasts and buttocks of the receiving partner and the buttocks of the penetrating partner.
With the use of a chair, and after making sure it is sturdy and safe the penetrating partner will sit down. The receiving partner will now straddle across ready to accept the erect penis facing the penetrating partner with their feet on the floor. This particular sex position is called the lap dance.
There is always that one concern linked to sexual intercourse for putting a dampener on performance and pleasure is the fear of falling pregnant. If you have multiple sex partners you should use contraception and preferable that being condoms. Condoms not only help prevent unwanted pregnancies but sexually transmitted infections as well. There's always a strong possibility of becoming pregnant if sperm comes in contact with the vagina, it can also result from having anal sex too. Oral sex is not an act you should fear of pregnancy happening...but if sperm is left lingering on the hands and your still touchy feely with them then pregnancy can occur.
If being good in bed worries you then it shouldn't. If your partner loves you then in their eyes there will be no-one will come within an inch of bettering you in respect of the service you provide.
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Article submitted Saturday, July 25, 2009 & read 4123 times.
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» left by Leah Gag Cartoonist (962)(194 days 15 hours ago.)
There's a saying, be a lady in public and a wh*re in the bedroom,and your man will be quite happy!Men like to call adventurous women 'dirty girls'which is a shame as it is them that makes womenassociate being adventurous with being 'dirty'.Guys if you want your women to throw caution to the wind,change your phraseology! ;)LeahRespond to this comment
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