Is Kinky Sex Better Than Dirty Sex? Seduction Tips & Causes Of Sexual Intercourse Problems
by Kacycarr(2,692)
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What's the difference between dirty sex and clean sex? I am afraid I can't answer that because I believe neither of them exists. As opposed to the meaning of the word "dirty" I think any misconception of it boils down to mean kinky, and as for "clean," sex without the kinky. What does kinky mean? It can represent many things but more usual is unpredicted samplings of sexual or erotic doings. Kinky sex moves shouldn't be misconstrued as acts of perversion. It is perfectly normal to introduce new sex positions or other into the bedroom. You don't learn or get experience from lying flat on your back and thinking of England.
The amount of bemused people who come querying "kinky" is quite high. These same people either want to involve themselves and their partners in having kinky sex sessions, or simply because curiosity got the better of them. Unfortunately a large percentage of the men and women who come to us, sadly even if they wanted to, "can't" include those mis-labeled nonexistent dirty or clean sex activities into there life…because they have serious problems which prevent them from having sexual intercourse altogether. Common causes responsible for preventing sexual intercourse are erectile dysfunction (impotency,) vaginal infections, vaginal tightness; in fact any type of infection or penis problem.
No one wants problems in their marriage/relationship, and especially more so if linked to sex. Regular issues in most relationships are usually debt or children, however these do get sorted "without" help, but when it comes down to the intimate side of things it's a different matter. More about sex problems listed below.
Seduction Tips
If you don't have a problem maintaining an erection, but would like to put it to use when it stands to attention then read on.
It's natural for any bloke to feel slightly nervous on his first approach with seduction in mind, that is unless he's the type of guy who has the "I love me who do you love" sort of attitude. The ideal time to make the first move so you don't look as if coming across as pushy and eager is during the transitional stage in a relationship. Transitional means from being non-physical to physical. Your rendezvous needs to go smooth without interruption so make sure you have a private place to retreat to.
You should never plough in to seduce a woman; any sexual advances need to be done slowly. Groping and fiddling is a big turn off. If you have worked up a sweat and feel the urge to rush, don't, it will lead to fumbling, and a shaky hand will never hit the target. Once you've found you're ideal seduction quarters you then need to get your seducing tactics in order so everything goes according to plan. You should write down times as where to progress from in getting the woman's phone number, to fondling her, to kissing and caressing, and to seducing her. You want this time to seem non-offensive and non-intentional; it needs to be passionate and meaningful.
If you have done seduction before and failed at your attempt then there may be a perfectly simple explanation why it all went wrong
You need to try understanding the woman you're trying to seduce. Not every women is the same which I am sure you are well aware of… hence success and failure. You need to identify what her wants and needs are in order to progress, and the seduction is a success Seduction shouldn't be one sided it's a two way street. If you provide the pleasure the woman anticipates she will become responsive making seduction not only easier but more exciting .If your pleasing your partner he/she will show signs of this, so take note and please them more.
The excitement of seduction sometimes lies in the chase rather than the actual intimate connection.
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Remember, eyes talk the talk so be careful with eye contact. Don't stare, an occasional glance now and again will show you're interested. Make sure you're glances are directed at the "right" person.
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A smile is convincing so do it often but not too much
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It's vital you're confidant…stuttering is embarrassing. Confidence will up the odds in your favor of seducing the man/woman you have taken a fancy to.
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Give compliments but don't go overboard. They need to be true and not false as the person may see through this. Being honest and sincere get's results
A common problem why men don't give a second thought to seducing a woman is because they may be suffering from erectile dysfunction. ED sometimes referred to as impotence is a condition which causes continual inability to keep an erection for sexual intercourse. Although impotence is similar to ED its symptoms differ. Symptoms are when something interferes with sexual intercourse and reproduction like loss of sexual desire and problems with ejaculation or orgasm. If you believe you're a sole sufferer then you're not. Erectile dysfunction is a common male condition that sees men in the thousands receive treatment for, or looking for a remedy on a daily basis. It causes "total" inability to attain erection, an inconsistent ability to do so, or a tendency to maintain only short term erections.
It's not unusual for sicknesses, injury, or side effects of specific drugs to cause this problem in older men. Whatever the complication if it affects the nerves or hampers blood flow in the penis then you're at risk. Since an erection needs an accurate series of measures - ED can occur if the series is disturbed. The series compromise of nerve impulses in the brain, spinal column, and the region around the genitals, (penis) and reaction in muscles, fibrous tissues, veins, and arteries in and close-by the corpora cavernosa. Particular things you do in life that might contribute to heart disease and vascular concerns can put you at greater risk. Tobacco and obesity are two to name. If you quit smoking and lose weight it lessens the odds of you becoming a sufferer. Men who after making a few healthy lifestyle changes said, their sex life had bettered beyond belief. No man is the same although conditions are, so what works for one bloke may not for the other.
As for women it's usually vaginal tightness (vaginismus) that's the problem, although a female issue it affects men big time if their partner suffers from it. Vaginal tightness causes pain for both male/female. Vaginismus causes involuntary tightness of the vagina during attempted intercourse. Many women might experience burning, pain, or stinging during sexual intercourse. Then we have women who can't accept penetration full stop. Tightness can be that limiting that the opening to the vagina shuts completely. It's disturbing to hear this; however there are things that can be done to help loosen the vagina. Aside from surgery to correct severe tightness - you can practice other methods so the penis can enter the vagina without pain.
The vagina itself is never too small for the penis. It's an organ specially designed for this purpose. But things can go wrong like vaginismus, and therefore the purpose has no value. The condition shouldn't be confused with frigidity.. Women are often sexually responsive, but can't tolerate penetration even when they want to.
Put the "spark" back into your sexual Relationship without Erectile Dysfunction
Article submitted Friday, August 14, 2009 & read 1404 times.
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