Tips For Enjoying Casual Sex and Surviving
by Beth Kade(7)With the premiere of Accidentally on Purpose on CBS, the thought of casual sex was thrown into the limelight. The main character begins having casual sex with someone MUCH younger and ends up pregnant. It is the set up for perfect comedic genius.
With the story line of the show, casual sex is once again throw into the limelight. With endless women and men waiting longer and longer before marrying, casual sex is becoming more and more tempting for individuals. As singles wait and hope for love, casual sex can just be a way of relieving stress and relaxing.
Casual Sex Is Not For Everyone
Deep down if you are hoping to find that right guy and get married, casual sex is probably not the best for you. If you are that emotional type of person that has a history of stalking exes, casual sex is probably not for you. If you only want one partner in life, casual sex is not for you. Emotion is not involved in casual sex. The chemistry that is felt during casual sex is chemical related, not love.
Be honest
On that note, be honest with yourself and your partner from the beginning. Make sure that both are going in with the same feelings about what you are doing. So yes you have to have the " talk. " Then during the sex, remind yourself that this is just casual.
Be safe and listen to weirdness meter
If your weirdness meter is going off at all, pass on the person. It isn't worth it. Make sure you are safe at all times. Use protection and then more protection. It is just casual, after all. But at the same time, you do not want to end up with diseases or a baby if you are not ready.
Don't hook up during life changes
You just broke up. Your loved one just died. You lost your job. None of these are great times to have casual sex flings. As much as you want to deny it, too much emotion is involved.
In and out
If you are going forward with the casual sex, don't prolong the encounters. This means, no spending the night. No dates leading up to it. Just in and out. Then there are no chances of the emotional connection that could end up to be bad news.
Again casual sex is not for everyone. It takes a special kind of person. These are just a few tips so that you do not end up like the main character in Accidentally on Purpose. Enjoy your life and be careful out there.
Article submitted Tuesday, September 22, 2009 & read 4934 times.
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