Sexual Expression As Told by Me
by
Kenya Adams
Let me set the record straight. See there are those that think that just because I express myself freely and openly and without a care for judgment that I am a freak. And I am. But I'm a freak meaning I am open to all things that stimulate me sexually and am more than willing to share those things with a loyal partner as often as I can. It does not mean that I'm a slut. Some men have misconstrued the fact that I enjoy and have no qualms about expressing my spiritual and sexual self in an open forum with the idea that I am promiscuous. This assumption makes an ass of them. I know that many ppl are unable to express themselves in this manner publicly or privately, with others or with their partners. I was inducted to the halls of many things sexual at an early age and more than that, I'm tapped into that part of me so much so that I embrace it and recognize it as an attribute and a forceful energy to be used with the partner of my choosing or to be helpful to others. The shy come to me privately with questions they know I will happily answer truthfully and to the best of my ability. And then I have those that come by and say " let's me and you join up and explore our love of sex together " (sigh) First I'd like to say to those ppl have some class and respect. Secondly I'm not a nympho. I don't love sex in that sense. I love God. I love my children. I ENJOY sex and am not afraid or ashamed to say so. What this makes me is confident, open and self aware. This is the difference folks. But the thing of it is: Comments and the feelings that come with statements like the one above along with judgments like " oh she must be a slut " keeps many women (and some men) from fully expressing themselves sexually. I don't physically express my mental sex with everyone. I verbally express my mental sex with ppl of like minds and those that can benefit from it on some level. Therein lies the difference between myself and someone who feels they must physically express it with every person that they feel such feelings for (or not) for validation or defining purposes. I used to allow other ppl to define me. Whatever they thought I looked like or spoke like or should act like, that's how I saw myself. Until I realized that these ppl were gonna damn me whatever I did so I might as well be myself and be the best me that I could be. In this way I give them a reason to hate on me and it let's me know that the ppl around me are around because of who I truly am. Those who don't like my brutally honest, analytical, candid, sensual manner have a choice to make. I hope I've inspired someone to break out of the mold and embrace themselves in all of their spiritual, emotional and sexual glory! I am completely the person that God made me to be and I love that.....but don't get it twisted!
Article submitted Friday, October 02, 2009 & read 35 times.
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