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Can Kinky Sex Games & Dirty Pictures Fix Problem Relationships - Is Your Sex Life Risky Or Frisky?

by Kacycarr(1,674) Bronze Star
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Kinky Sex games - Is the sex in your relationship giving you what it's supposed to "satisfaction?" Or should I say ‘Is there "any" sex in your relationship.' Yes you heard right. There are many couples living together under the same roof, but no matter how close they are...sexual intercourse doesn't happen. This is frustrating for the woman who waits for the penis to enter the vagina, and just as infuriating for the man who can't deliver the goods so as to speak (When penetration is prevented.) There are various reasons why this happens, so let's look at the most obvious why men and women can't have sex.

One common cause is due to a person's health, but running strong in contention for being stuck in a sexless marriage, or sexless relationship is the boyfriend/girlfriend, or spouse, getting their oats elsewhere, or just simply you're partner no longer finds you attractive. It's hard for people that love the bones of their partner and who long for them to be touchy feely with their body parts once again, but not get their desire fulfilled because the love is not there anymore..

In most cases of "no" sex, it's not always about falling out of love with the person they married, or shacked up with, it's usually about what their partner has become, or because they let themselves go (appearance.) It's not fair having to keep up appearances to please another, but if that's what takes to get the sex back then you need to smarten up and get you're act together. And if this means dressing in kinky clothes for kinky sex then so be it.

Why do men/women stray from their own bed to lie with another? Good question. Don't expect a truthful answer when confronting your partner about his/her affair, or their "one off" act of adultery.  Be wary of the "one offs" when the adulterer asks for forgiveness, and for a second chance, which usually has follow the third chance and fourth being begged for. Some cheaters after being caught out sleeping with another man/woman will try and wriggle out of the situation by blaming you. Don't fall into the trap of the deceitful whose infidelity gave you reason to ask questions.

It's worth sitting down and talking about the sex problem. Ask your partner why they have gone off having sex with you. Although it's worth talking about, it's not worth charging in bawling and shouting because this won't get you anywhere.

If your partner is honest and tells you that he/she is bored with habitual sex and would like more from you in the way of excitement and change, then you change and excite them. Do this by playing kinky sex games with them. Time in the bedroom is playtime, and who knows you may even like the new kinky you, or kinky partner.

Sex isn't just about lying on your back and having sexual intercourse. Sex can be practiced sitting down, standing up, over the kitchen sink or wherever you have privacy and comfort. Good sex is only ever going to be good sex when both partners are consenting to the sex positions and sex ideas proposed.

Two primary health conditions that affect both genders and prevent sexual intercourse are Erectile Dysfunction (male) and Vaginismus (female.)

What is erectile dysfunction?

There is much confusion among men to what ED is (erectile dysfunction) who think it's something to do with premature ejaculation which is 'coming too quickly' - or retarded ejaculation which is (late ejaculation.) Erectile dysfunction means an inability to get an erection to achieve satisfactory sex. Some men can't get an (Hard-on or Stiffy) both "slang" for erection…while other men are fortunate and manage to get their John Thomas to stand to attention but not rigid enough for penetration; but for them that the penis does penetrate the vagina; it's a matter of time when the swelling deflates. Any guy will tell you this has to be the most frustrating thing a bloke can endure, and women in saying that.

An erection occurs when blood is pumped into the penis and remains there, making it hard. An erection is a regular function of the male body a guy has to cope with when thinking about sex, or when the penis is manually stimulated. The outcome is that signals go down the nerves that lead from the male spinal cord to the genitals which then alert the blood vessels which supply the penis to open up. Blood runs in and the organ ‘blows up' inflates. A valve mechanism near the bottom of the penis keeps the blood from running out again until sex is achieved. Stress and too much alcohol (brewers droop) can interfere with getting an erection. It's said Nicotine products may narrow vital blood vessels – which is why ED is common in smokers. More on the solution to having super sex below.

Kinky sex is something that a woman is denied if she suffers from Vaginal Tightness "Vaginismus."
 
Depending on the intensity, vaginismus symptoms vary from mild burning sensations with vaginal tightening, so tight the vaginal opening is near to closing up making penetration impossible.

How do you use sex games to augment your sexual bliss?  Easy, play the games you both will get pleasure from during love making  Erotic sex games are practiced by "certain" people. These people enjoy what's involved with the erotic thing i.e. domination or humiliation.

Most popular of all kinky sex will includes rope or handcuffs.  If you have to persuade your partner to be tied up, then it's not a good idea to go ahead. If gentle coaxing did the trick, then you know they want to play. Take control and dominate. Spice up the sex with sex toys like dildos and vibrators that come in various colors, flavors, shapes and sizes. Some men tend to lose control at this point and go and spoil all the fun by masturbating on seeing their woman's naked body. Masturbation will deflate the willy for a while preventing it from serving its purpose, leaving one frustrated woman tied to the bed.

If you want explosive sex then make time to please your partner handcuffed to the bed post. Some couples way of being kinky is to make movies of them having sex or taking erotic dirty pictures. If you've both agreed on being photographed, and sworn on oath there'll be no "You Tube" submission then it's not going to be risky being frisky with your poses.

  1. Your camera needs to be one your familiar with. It doesn't have to be top of the range, an automatic, manual, digital, Polaroid or disposable camera is good enough, however never forget and dispose of the camera with the film still iside.
  2. Best models to use are the Digital & Polaroid Camera both assures privacy. Aside from the technical pluses of a digital camera, the primary bonus is privacy. When it's time for development and you haven't your own dark room then make sure the camera shop your using is prepared for the content of your pics, and that they accept dirty pictures. You might not see them as dirty pictures but not everyone perceives things the same.
  3. Photo shops that work closely with professional photographers are more likely and happy to process erotic images.
  4. Planning out the photo shoot is vitally important. Find out what parts of the body the camera lens will be focusing on. Sort out your sexy underwear and props in advance. Setting the mood is fun and an essential part of the photo shoot. Lighting has to be right, burn some incense; light candles, or use dimmers and play romantic sexy music.
  5. It's ideal to be fully clothed slowly removing one garment at a time while the camera is clicking or rolling. Remember the camera flash is a giveaway so be careful.
  6. If you class photography as one of your kinky sex games then the poses need to be exciting sexy and erotic. Use different positions and angles. The photos are to be taken from these different angles to get the body parts that need snapping

View the images together and pick out the ones of your choice for personal viewing, but not to be displayed on the kitchen cabinet no matter how beautiful your body looks.

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Article submitted Wednesday, October 14, 2009 & read 1583 times.

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