How to Make My Wife Orgasm : The Essential Pleasure Tips for Frustrated Husbands!
by Maya Silverman(172)
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Sometimes when a couple is married for a while some of the foreplay time goes out the window. Maybe you’re busy with work or kids, but you should never let your love life dwindle. “Quickies" are great sometimes, but it’s important to make sure your wife has an orgasm as well. It typically takes longer for woman to orgasm than a man, and if time is a factor sometimes women will “fake it" to speed the process along.
This does speed it along, but it also gives the man a false sense of accomplishment. If you let your husband think he’s given you an orgasm when he really hasn’t, then it’s going to be difficult to get him to try harder next time, because he will think what he did last time was doing it for you. Faking it is lying and lying can hurt your sex life, and ultimately your marriage. Plus, why should the man get to have all the fun? Sex should be fun and satisfying for both partners.
Getting a woman to orgasm can be much more difficult than a man. Most women aren’t able to climax from sexual intercourse alone, but also need their clitoris stimulated, because the penis doesn’t do a very good job of this all on its own. With women having an orgasm is not a mechanical thing like it is for men. Men can have an orgasm simply from having their penis rubbed, whether they particularly like the person rubbing it or not! Females orgasms however, are more emotional than just physical, and therefore more often has to be going on than just plain old quick sex.
If you want to give your wife a great orgasm then there are a few things you might want to do, such as create a romantic atmosphere, with pleasant comfortable surroundings, let your wife know how much you love and appreciate her, be sure to use enough lubricant so she doesn’t get sore, and know how to stimulate the clitoris.
An erotic massage can be a great way to lead up to a female orgasm. As the Kama Sutra points out, an erotic massage is a great way to show your partner how much you love them, and to discover things about each other in brand new ways. It’s also a great stress reliever and a wonderful way to relax, both things that will help bring your wife to orgasm.
Article submitted Friday, December 04, 2009 & read 161 times.
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