How To Last Longer In Bed? 4 Sex Games To Play & Hot Steamy Tips To Spice Up Sex
by Kacycarr(2,826)
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How to last longer in bed, that's easy play hot steamy sex games - Has your sex life gone downhill? Is there no more fun and excitement in your relationship? Has that spark between the both of you in the bedroom gone out? If so, it looks like you have a serious problem in your relation. You need to act fast and put back the missing links if you want this relationship/marriage back to how it was.
How to last longer in bed and tips to better improve you're relationship
Some people say there is more to a relationship than just having sex. I don't know who these people are but I would argue to the death that your average red hot blooded male would not agree. I believe to an extent that there is more to a relationship than the nookie issue, like the times you go out together for a meal, or sit in the back row of the cinema watching the latest movie, or that of sending each other loves notes.
C'mon, guys who are you trying to kid, let's be honest, you know as well as I that most relationships thrive duly because of the sex. What's the point of being with someone of the opposite gender if there is no sex? (Excluding them with a health issue that prevents them having sex such as erectile dysfunction or other.)
Sex has to be good and satisfying for both people, it needs to be exciting and explosive. If you don't have this then I assume that what you do in the bedroom can only be habitual and boring. If I'm to be honest if you bore me I'm not sticking around, end of story.
There can be many reasons why couples no longer stay together, and infidelity being one of those reasons. When the guilty person who strayed from their own bed has been rumbled they usually turn the tables on their partner. Men especially more so will do their best to wriggle out of the desperate situation they find themselves in, and try and put the blame on their partner for not giving them sex or giving into their sexual demands.
Women will have their reasons for refusing to have sex with their bloke, aside from the most common one being the headache. It could be his sexual advances or bizarre sexy proposals he makes towards her that she may find uncomfortable. If you're a woman and relate to this then you have to face your fears and not bottle them up, and neither close your legs to show you disapprove and clamp up. You have to tell your man the reason for crossing your legs so you can both come to some arrangement and practice sex moves you will both enjoy.
Playing stubborn and turning your back on your partner/spouse in bed can push him to look to sow his oats elsewhere, even though still in love with you. A man has needs so bear this mind.
If sex isn't good and is the cause for snubbing each other in the marital quarters then you need to sit down to talk things through, because you're sure as hell aren't going to lie down together to talk till everything is sorted.
Hot & Steamy Sex Game Sticky Honey
To play this game you're partner needs to be blindfolded. Both of you will be naked. You will need a pot of honey. How much Honey is used will depend on how many times you play the game. If you're not fond of Honey then use treacle or any other sweet sticky substance. Make sure it is something you and your sexual partner likes because you'll be using your tongue for this sex game. Lie down starkers on the bed and smear a small amount of the treacle or Honey on a part of your body. Your partner stays blindfolded while you do this. Using their tongue they will have to lick their way to the location of the honey.
Tip: The bigger the smudge of Honey the longer the licking goes on. No matter how much you enjoy this for gods sake keep some of the honey for another night. A full pot of honey can be sickly.
Why choose honey over treacle. Well honey is a fabulous source of boron, a trace mineral that aids the body to use and metabolise estrogen, the female sex hormone. Scientific research proved this specific mineral might augment testosterone levels in the blood, the hormone accountable for encouraging sex drive and orgasm in both sexes.
Fantasy Fun
You will need a pen and paper each for this sex game and "no" clothes. Both make notes of 3 of your fantasies and place them in a container. Pick one out at a time and the rest is up to you. Of course make sure you are comfortable with any suggestion pulled from the container. You are not to get angry if you are shocked and disgusted by what your partner may have proposed to spice up the sex. If you feel uneasy about a particular sex act then tell the other person how you feel, and draw another idea out.
Sexy Secrets
This sex game will allow you to find out more about your sexual partner and what they like and enjoy. Ask your partner to lay down naked on the bed. Tell them they are NOT to move. Allot yourself 60 seconds to explore their body with your tongue and mouth. As you kiss, lick and nibble certain parts of their body, you will know you have hit the right spot when they writhe. Now that you know what turns them on, don't leave the spot that is until they writhe no more.
You could play a game of strip poker; it's a common sex game I know, but still one that is popular for spicing up the sex
Guess what I am feeling you with?
Blindfold your naked lover and have them lie down on their back or front. Over their naked flesh you pass objects for them to guess what you are using. Objects shouldn't have sharp edges. Common sense will keep you both safe in the bedroom. You would be surprised how many accidents can happen when two people reach a state of oblivion and get careless.
If you tend on introducing sex toys and play out unfamiliar sex positions don't rush because the moans and groans won't be the ones you expect from good sex, but them from sex gone wrong.
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Article submitted Monday, January 04, 2010 & read 1785 times.
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» left by mogama (207 days 13 hours ago.)
Wow! That's a first... and that's all I'll say about this one, Kacy. ~mogama~Respond to this comment
» left by Kacy Carr (207 days 7 hours ago.)
And neither am I going to say much more on the matter myself MogamaKeep well you and yoursRespond to this comment
» left by Ella from Texas (206 days 21 hours ago.)
ooooh- that was good! And so was your article. It's funny, I eat honey everyday- love it- But didn't know that about the estrogen. Great article- Good advise. Yours Truly- EllaRespond to this comment
» left by Kacy Carr (206 days 21 hours ago.)
Hi Ella thanks. So your a honey bunny, thankfully not what we call a bunny boiler. Your dropping by to comment is much appreciated
Keep well
Kacy
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