Premature Ejaculation How to Stop Ejaculating To Fast? Make Sex Last Longer Methods & PE Treatments
by Kacycarr(2,826)
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If someone asks what premature ejaculation is, there is no definite answer to give because what some folk believe a reasonable length for sexual intercourse, others may see it is as laughable.
I would say if the man comes before the woman gets chance to puff and pant then that's too soon, and unacceptable. Nevertheless if the woman proclaimed beforehand to having the imaginary headache that we women suffer from at times, then to her the timing of a quickie will be much to her liking.
In 2006 Congress of the European Society for Sexual Medicine, a US study paper reported: the typical lasting time of men with PE was 1.8 minutes and men without PE lasted an average of 7.3 minutes.
If the problem of premature ejaculation is included in your relationship does it matter? You're telling me it does, and especially so if you don't want to suffer from it. In severe cases of PE it can threaten a relationship or even ruin a marriage - simply because it spoils the sex lives for both genders.
Sometimes, it can get so serious that ejaculation happens before the penis has chance to enter the vagina. This is sickening, can you imagine now how both man and woman are feeling at the minute. This is a huge blow to system when both people are all worked up. It can also severely affect man's self-confidence.
Why would women want to leave their partner who suffers from premature ejaculation? One reason is if they want to get pregnant, but more so because they are denied the pleasure of the puff and pant matter that you get when having good sex. Women need to sit back and think before making the drastic decision of leaving their man. Men get frustrated too, and if you both want this relationship to work then both need to look at ways to better the problem
What causes Premature Ejaculation?
For a long time now, sex experts have said that premature ejaculation is caused by early conditioning. What this means is, the man's early sexual experiences had to be quick so as to avoid discovery. This implies it conditions him to climax fast. This has in other study been argued against because men came forward and said this was not the case for them, although some said it was
Let's look at what can be done for men with PE
If you have a bout of mild PE – for example, you can last five minutes having sexual intercourse but would like it to last 10, there's probably no need to seek medical attention. Mild PE in most cases can be improved with easy distraction techniques. How men do this, is they turn their mind to something else when near to climax. How can a man in his element possibly be expected to follow such an absurd suggestion when he is enjoying himself? If you want that enjoyment to last longer then you have to do it, other blokes are.
Treatments for Premature Ejaculation
Local anaesthetic gel men use themselves. It is applied to the shaft of the penis shortly before sexual intercourse. It supposedly helps 'damp down' sexual sensation in the penis. The downside to using local anaesthetic gel is that the local anaesthetic can 'dull' the sex sensation for your lover. It's also known to cause a worrying skin reaction in both sexes causing severe itching, redness and soreness. Make sure if you tend on using the gel to correct the premature ejaculation issue is to ask the doctor or other about everything included in the gel and any side effects that can happen.
Long love condoms
Thanks to German scientists they have come up with another idea that won't cause vaginal irritation. They developed the 'long love condom.' The condom contains a local anaesthetic benzocaine. Known to work where men do last longer in bed; however still the risk of a sensitivity reaction.
Treatments continued
If you have the severe sort of PE then most likely, you are already under the doctor or about to see one. You mustn't dwell over the problem because time is an issue if your relationship is under pressure. It's only a matter of time when the bags are packed and the partner is off all because you never tried or made an effort to get treated for your PE
The Masters-Johnson method
This specific treatment has helped many men with the help of their partners. Both people have to do this together. It is based on a unique 'penis grip' created by the US therapists Masters and Johnson. The finger-grip stops the desire to climax. The couple involved and under supervision and guidance will use it over several weeks, to help re-train the man so he can last much longer having sex, instead of falling at the first fence.
Instructions
- The woman will place her hand so her thumb is on one side of the man's erect penis (the nearer side to her if looking at him direct).
- The index and middle fingers are on the other side.
- The index finger should be settled over the ridge of the head while the middle finger is just under the ridge.
- As the man nears climax, he will tell his sexual partner.
- Her duty then is to squeeze the shaft firmly between her thumb and the other two fingers.
You may have to hide those blushes if you want to use this method to cure your premature ejaculation problem because the technique has to be demonstrated by an expert.
Men should not blame themselves, like many do, for not being able to give pleasure to their woman, such thinking is damaging. Until you have been treated and cured of the problem of coming to quick, then remember that women are easily satisfied in other ways. Okay some women may like penetration but most of their groans derive from foreplay fondling and oral sex. Keep this in mind till everything is fixed and you're up and running again, and who knows you may not bother about ever being up again.
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Article submitted Sunday, January 10, 2010 & read 2926 times.
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» left by Kacy Carr (201 days 22 hours ago.)
Good point - Thanks for dropping by
Kacy
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