Sex 4 Beginners - How To Start Sex 4 Girls/Boys First Sexual Intercourse Experience
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Sex - So you think the time is right for you and your girlfriend/boyfriend to have sex. Is there a little voice in your head telling you your ready for sex – what would this voice know? We will address the matter of readiness later. So tonight's the night you have planned to have sexual intercourse, but not sure where to start to initiate sex. Don't be embarrassed or think yourself silly because you need guidance. If first time sex is to be special and good then you are doing the right thing looking for help. In fact it's sensible to ask for advice because this way you guarantee your first time experience of having sex is a wonderful one.
Have you ever thought "am I ready to have sex?" the answer can only be "yes" or "no" but you have to be certain about one or the other? First time sex doesn't leave everyone with a smile on their face, so remember this. It can cause all sorts of complications if you have unprotected sex (Unwanted pregnancy, HIV and sexually transmitted infections.) There's also the emotional side of things to having sex with someone to be considered, especially if they're not likely to stick around for long. How can you possibly know they won't, that's it you don't, so this is where you have to be careful?
You mustn't be bullied or pressurized into having sex. You need to do this for you and no one else. If you've only just met your partner think before doing anything silly that you may regret at a later date. You won't have had time to build up trust between you and this person, and for any relationship to work; the trust needs to be there.
Let's assume you're both of legal age to have sex and definitely ready but don't know where to start then below is some advice to help guide you. If at any point you want to pull out then do it right away instead of waiting for him to pull out if you have second thoughts. Once sex is going full bore the guy may find it difficult to stop. Depending on how brash a person is most first time sexual experiences can be scary for some whatever their age group. Don't forget first time sex is when someone is about to lose their virginity. Be sure, because once it's gone there's no way of getting it back.
It's natural to feel a slight embarrassed and awkward the first time you have sex. Your sexual partner will probably feel the same. So now we have two red faced people in an awkward situation. Hey c'mon get over it and get on with it, if you don't then you never will.
Before charging on in with your lance think about what it is you want from this coming sexual encounter -- a steamy one night frolic or the beginning of a longstanding loving relationship? This will determine how you perform. Remember this person in your bed is human and no one likes being treated like an object. Great respect is compulsory. Respect implies you know of what the other person wants. You are obliging to discover what they are capable of and what their sexual restrictions are. Once matters of this nature has been covered this tells your sexual partner that what you are about to do, you have given much thought to. This will show them that you care.
Tenderness is practiced as wanted, but harsh sex moves are something that's mutually desired and should never even be considered for your first time. Rough sex is best agreed upon by both parties at a later time - that's if it's to be considered at all.
They say talk to your sexual partner about their likes and dislikes, but this is pointless because you won't have clue what to do even if they told you, with it being your first time. Take things slow and you can't go wrong and then ask questions as you go along. Not like an interrogation but use a gentle tone and whisper in your partner's ear to see if they are liking the feely-feely build up. Build up to sexual intercourse is as we know it, called foreplay.
If you create the right atmosphere for your lovemaking it will certainly help. A private place, candlelight, music, wine, food and clean sheets should help get you both in the mood. Are you a guy and about to seduce your girl for the first time, if so remember foreplay is important if she is to get sexual satisfaction.
Sexual Intercourse
Sexual intercourse is when a man and woman come together and get sexually excited as a result of kissing, stroking, caressing licking, rubbing and touching each other's bodies. At this point the penis gets hard (erection) which the man or woman will guide into the vagina for sex to take place, and that's it. How you get on with the job after that will depend on how comfortable you are with movement and the sex position you might be in, or find you're in. Sex can start in bed, but before climax you could find yourself on the floor, or even another room of the house. When things heat up sometimes it's hard to keep track of what's going on so be careful. There are quite a number of different sex positions for you to choose from. One most common sex position involves both the man and woman lying down, with the man on top. It's called the missionary sex position, and one which is the best option if this is your first time at having sex. Once the penis has penetrated the vagina both people need to move their bodies so that the penis pushes into the vagina and then pulls partly out again. After the in out movement has gone on for a time it can lead to orgasm (coming or climaxing.)
A little advice, do not go for the Dutch courage approach and down alcohol. Yes no doubt it will relax you, but there's also the possibility of it relaxing your John Thomas too. Too many girls and boys lose their virginity as a result of having too much to drink. Sleeping with a sober man/woman is sexier, A drunk person brings smelly breath and fumbles a lot, and not to mention it upping the odds on them falling asleep on the job.
There is no particular way to initiate sex other than take your time, be considerate towards your lover as you go along and everything will come naturally.
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Article submitted Monday, February 08, 2010 & read 2151 times.
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